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Dear Readers  We have come to rule No 4 Forgiveness to everything including yourself. I can say from my side that this rule is a tough one, but it is a step you need to take on your journey to self discovery and here's why: It's a decision you will teach your mind to accept and with enough repetition your emotions towards the person or matter will lose it's trigger and those strong emotions will slowly start to die off, you will open your mind to a broader understanding of how pointless it is to attach feelings or thoughts to past or current people in your life that causes emotions you don't want to surface. If you are embarrassed or ashamed of a certain emotion or behaviour then it's YOUR SIGNAL to focus on that weakness, understand why you can't forgive that person, what is truly holding you back from forgiving as well as why it's hard to let go and just forgive. The end result still remains unchanged, that person or life will continue as usual regardless ...

Dear Readers 👋  I love sharing because sharing is caring so as always....... Time to put on your thinking hats and let's get to it: 🤫😀👇 You get 6 different types of thinking hats applied in business, this role playing mode was created by a genius mind Edward Do Bono back in 1986,  However this is a great tool to psychologically understand people's ways of thinking, the mindset morals values and beliefs they hold and basically what they are all about, see the thing is people reveal to you who they are, you just gotta become aware of the signs and only then can you learn to live in peace with people who annoy or bring you to agitation,,,, Time to unlock to free thinking: Accepting the different thinking hats blocks disagreements that happen when people with different thinking styles discuss same issues, approaching the conversation from this particular point of view helps people move outside their usual thinking styles and helps one get a broader understanding of the situati...

Dear Readers  The time has come for ladies to become aware of what playtime distractions are really doing to you, as always let's get to it: Playtime distractions for the ladies, social media, make up and exercise tutorials, fashion, men and more men, friends, gossiping, time wasting and pointless talks, chasing money and followers, behaving in a goon manner (we will go more in depth on gooning in a later post) fighting and competing with one another being jealous , feeling depressed or unworthy, as you can see the list can carry on for days.....but you get my point! These playtime distractions is killing every part of you that wants to flourish. Time to put on your thinking hats 👒 👌 😉 😌 🤔  When us ladies are on social media we can feel so lost and depressed, we lose our identity and question who we are or we end up not feeling good enough. Here is where you are going wrong with your playtime distractions: You are feeding your focus with content and info that serves other...

How to conquer negative thoughts in your mind..... knowledge is power so here is my understanding of conquering negative thoughts  The time has come to put on your thinking hats and think a little deeper than usual.....so let's get to it...... Negative thoughts don't just manifest by itself,,,it is created, and what is the source of this creation, 🤔 you will not believe..... Most of your Negative thoughts is coming from the outside world, your interactions with people, the experiences you've been through and also what you think about yourself as a whole,  Let's go deeper: You will not feel shitty about yourself unless someone rejects you am I right? But when people love you then you can't help but think good things about yourself,  So here is the secret to conquering your negative thoughts: Start questioning those thoughts, challenge them in your mind, no you will not be crazy for that 😜 😉 trust me..... our brain has signals called neurotransmitters and everytime...

 Dear Readers We have come to the final part of Rule No 3 Crack the code to distractions, PLAYTIME DISTRACTIONS   I will cover the men in today's post  So as always let's get to it....... I picked this just for the men as I feel it resonates to guys the most, so there's your quote to get your thinking hats going deeper..... Let's move on.....playtime distractions for the men.....let's name them: Chick's,cars,motivational goals,bro codes,fashion,gyming and and..... So how does this come into ruining your life, I will tell you,  Your playtime distractions will fog your thinking and keep you asleep from what you truly want to achieve in your life..... Most of the complaints from men are about women cheating, befriending men, becoming shameless and disrespectful or being gold diggers, let me ask you why you complaining? Your secret distractions are the very same things you complain about..... Let's go deeper, you want nice cars, the vroo paas and and, you also w...

Dear Readers We have arrived at our second part to rule No 3  Crack the code to distractions.... Today I'm going to cover personal distractions, so as promised let's get to it..... There's something called urge surfing 🏄‍♀️ 🌊 yes it exists in all of us let me explain further cos knowledge is power and when you give your mind the scope to understand and put a label to an issue, working on it becomes natural, you will see for yourself, so back to urge surfing, definition: Urge surfing refers to a mental technique of observing an urge without engaging in it How is this technique a secret to conquering personal distractions let me explain further: For example your on social media browsing through your feeds, this can make you feel a certain type of way, but it can be controlled and put back into its place by adapting the urge surfing technique,  So how do you apply urge surfing technique 🤔 😏 that is easy......learn to sit with your feelings, if you feeling like ...

Created by Ameerah, 11 years old.....I take my hat off for you💯 Dear Readers  I have the official stamp by Google to take my blog to the next level and thank you for the support,  So as per Readers request, here is my official logo to a Voetsek Situation, thank you for all the helpful insights into making this blog a community for all of us!  Have a great weekend guys and God bless 🙌 

 Dear Readers  I hope my off day from blogging made you think about the 2 rules I mentioned in my previous posts,if the first 2 rules got you thinking then this rule will get your thinking hats going deeper  So let's get to it..... Distractions are everywhere and distractions are people too, let's say you have a goal of saving money, hmmm we all wish we had the discipline when it comes to that 😅and unfortunately with the living expenses being so high, saving has become non existent...but that goal can happen if you use your focus correctly: How do we lose focus in the 1st place, you go out you meet people, you make friends you socialise you enjoy life, and we should do that cos as people we need to connect with others, but if you want to truly connect to Thyself then please stop being like the sheep and become a lion 🦁, rather be the hunter than the prey!  With distractions if you don't apply yourself properly you will empty your pockets out faster than the time it...

 

Dear Readers I hope everyone is having the best Sunday one can imagine ❤️ 💕,  if not that's ok we will get there, remember it's all in the mind 😀😉😊 Now that you have given yourself fully to God by allowing Him to do His job on you, your next step is going to be hard, correcting all your faults, the parts of you that don't serve you anymore, I'm talking about those attachments us as human beings can't let go of, greed, lust, rage, you know what I'm talking about, selfishness being the biggest of them all!  So remember I said take inventory of all your bad habits and behavior, there was a reason for this, I want you to physically look at what are your faults, in plain ink and paper the reality will sink in trust me.....and be completely honest don't lie to yourself remember God knows the real you so you can't deceive Him either, make it a private assignment between you and God alone to work on, you will thank me later for this, put your hands up from a...