Part Two Rule No 1 _ God first (before anyone else)

Dear Readers

I hope everyone is having the best Sunday one can imagine ❤️ 💕,  if not that's ok we will get there, remember it's all in the mind 😀😉😊

Now that you have given yourself fully to God by allowing Him to do His job on you, your next step is going to be hard, correcting all your faults, the parts of you that don't serve you anymore, I'm talking about those attachments us as human beings can't let go of, greed, lust, rage, you know what I'm talking about, selfishness being the biggest of them all! 

So remember I said take inventory of all your bad habits and behavior, there was a reason for this, I want you to physically look at what are your faults, in plain ink and paper the reality will sink in trust me.....and be completely honest don't lie to yourself remember God knows the real you so you can't deceive Him either, make it a private assignment between you and God alone to work on, you will thank me later for this, put your hands up from any religion from any walk of life and say My Almight My Creator I am handing all my faults and bad muju inside me over to you and I will put in the necessary effort and work that is needed to reshape these parts of me to a better version. AMEEN!!! LEAVE IT THERE.....your next step..

Figure out what temperament you are, Google temperaments personality quizzes online and work on your weaknesses from the results there as a guideline and knowing thyself too....I wish I could take credit for this idea but nope it doesn't belong to me at all, I will give credit to the owner of this idea (a good Manager I work with) and my dear Readers that was the best advice someone gave me in getting to know who Firi really is, what is her weaknesses and how can we face these demons head on? I say be their friends get to know them better and conquer them through humility and kindness which is by working on yourself and admitting to God each and every fault within you, He is your biggest pillar leave everything in his hands. 
As Kendrick Lamar says.....
"If God got you, then your gonna be ok"
Some lyrics you just can't forget and this stuck with me, I hope it will stick with you too🤗

So time to sum it up
Admit to God and Leave it to Him(His got this)
Find out what temperament you are are work on that as a guidline to better your weaknesses 

P.S on a personal level I learned about temperaments when I became a keeper of tarantulas, I ended up with 1 as a gift and well a gift is a gift so I named her Issy learned about her temperament and created a bond from there, amazing what that theory on spiders alone could help us as people too, to understand ourselves better, so please guys really put effort into the rules that I pass on, you will see results faster than you think💯✌️
Break yourself down to build yourself up, rules on conquering the mind to self actualization

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