Rule No 2 _ Know Thyself (become the master of your sea)

Dear Readers 

We have come to our 2nd rule.....Know Thyself, become the master of your sea, if you handle your waters right you gonna get awesome waves let's go surfing 👋 😀 

Ok this rule guys is gonna make you question everything you thought you knew about yourself, but anyways this must be done so let me open your mind to what you couldn't see, but don't blame yourself or beat yourself up about it, cos it ain't your fault, life is crazy and what we lack as human beings is direction, you will come to understand the real definition of direction once you go deeper into knowing yourself.

As you all know we are all made up of 3 elements....mind,body and soul....yes God has gifted us with that, yet majority don't know how to use the 1st one correctly, overeat or undereat on the second and completely ignore the third which is the most critical of them all.....that's what your taking with you when you die....not your body and not your mind so let's start feeding your soul shall we:

You will obviously know yourself properly when it comes to your body, you know what food you like and dislike, but your mind doesn't get the right information that it needs and your soul doesn't get enlightened or granted a level up to God's kingdom cos it's been ignored...

To the guys, openly talking about who you banged and how slick you can be with the ladies by lying and cheating your way through every one of them....let me tell you, you are tying your soul to each and every women your dogging and that women if she is with guys other than you everyone's soul is getting tied in some way and you all go in a loop like crazies....you start behaving badly, you feel like shit, you get depressed, you start developing bad habits, you blame eachother you get angry, you end up with serious consequences or you just end up doing the coward thing and dodge, hide or ghost as they put it these days, complete nonsense all these terms if you ask me, just a distraction to the weak minded to make you believe you look 😎 cool....or the Alpha....then the second issue facing our world today with men....you abandon your kids cos your too busy chasing a life that will not serve you 10 or 20 years from now, if you don't believe me go and ask the seniors in our community and they will tell you what really matters in the end. We all are going to the finish line make your road a good one 👍 👌 😉 👏 🙌 1 you are proud of or maybe you just don't want anything to do with the mother of the child, all that stuff don't matter it's so trivial and petty, what matters is what you and mama feeds into your child's mind,body and soul  cos that child will be a reflection of you and your future generations to come don't make waste of your families lineage.....why you wana impress your friends or family members or the ladies? That moment is taken in, people get impressed then they move on the next thing that's gonna impress them, focus on impressing God and watch how He makes you a better you.

To the ladies, we do exactly the same things as men, even some ladies do it worse and we have the audacity to complain about men, women have become too confident that we are forgetting all that we represent as women, either a man is gonna do 2 things to you as a women, his gonna respect you or his gonna use you, and he does that based solely on what you show to him, ask the men if you don't believe me, now please guys I beg of you don't take everything I'm saying the wrong way.....I am not bashing any sexes or saying 1 is better than the other, we all have failed as human beings, with everything that is happening in the world today you can see for yourself what I'm talking about....so ladies if you enjoy being used or being very feminist to the point where anything goes this blog is not for you, so don't throw shade don't hate please exit my blog gracefully, but if you want to be a women who wants to be of value and do right with God, your husband and your kids I can promise you that path is more fulfilling and one you can be proud of until the end.

So here comes the exercise to the rule....we are not going to be drastic here and say completely stop, as I have highlighted before change doesn't happen over night, it is a process and that process becomes such a rewarding journey if your willing to put in the effort and build the right foundation for your life,

Just ask yourself 1 simple question, ARE YOU 100% SATISFIED with the lifestyle you are currently living, and I'm not talking about money or whether you live in a hut, I'm talking about what you do in secret when no one is looking 😉 😏 so let's not pretend like you don't know what I'm talking about.....

Guys please go and have this conversation with yourself in your mind, ask God for guidance and put your trust in Him! I don't believe we can be happy with our sins it's a part of us we love to hide, but it's better to work on it admit it to God and just trust the process 💯 ✨️ that in the end the catastrophe of your life will become a masterpiece, I'm talking about our demons, I know mines, I want you to learn about yours and become friends with them and then eventually defeat....

I am in no way trying to create an image of I am perfect without any flaws, I myself also have made mistakes, I have also hurt people, I have also sinned, we all do....but you have to take the lessons from your sins and move forward and you have to give your soul a chance to flourish to its highest potential with God, with you as an individual, with your family, friends, colleagues, people around you and the rest of the world 🌎 💙 you are the only one holding your soul back by tying it down with ways that don't allow it to soar....

We have come to the end of rule No 2, this rule doesn't have a deadline you are just going to question what you feed your soul, ask yourself if your happy with that, your gonna feel like crap about it and your mind will be all over the place, but remember now you are in creation mode, so the mind is going to ask you what next? I hope the solutions you come up will benefit your soul to its highest quality with God.