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Dear Readers The time has come to put on your thinking hats so let’s get to it: In today’s post we will look at forgiving yourself, which most struggle with because we now live in a society where forgiving yourself, accepting the flaws that you have or had as well as your weaknesses is looked down upon, we are programmed by the environment we live in, events that happen in our lives, people’s opinion and upbringing that causes us to block out forgiving oneself. As you can see many external factors at play here, which makes forgiveness a challenge for most. Time to go deeper: We have a thing within us called EGO, I like to call EGO the devil’s gift! We are not born with Ego, it is created and manifested in thoughts and actions. Ego is a big ingredient in sabotaging YOU from forgiving yourself and others, it also impacts your gateway to your higher self. Here is why ego will get in the way, Ego makes you feel entitled, forgetting that we need to go through challenges in our lif...

Dear Readers  We have come to rule No 4 Forgiveness to everything including yourself. I can say from my side that this rule is a tough one, but it is a step you need to take on your journey to self discovery and here's why: It's a decision you will teach your mind to accept and with enough repetition your emotions towards the person or matter will lose it's trigger and those strong emotions will slowly start to die off, you will open your mind to a broader understanding of how pointless it is to attach feelings or thoughts to past or current people in your life that causes emotions you don't want to surface. If you are embarrassed or ashamed of a certain emotion or behaviour then it's YOUR SIGNAL to focus on that weakness, understand why you can't forgive that person, what is truly holding you back from forgiving as well as why it's hard to let go and just forgive. The end result still remains unchanged, that person or life will continue as usual regardless ...

Dear Readers 👋  I love sharing because sharing is caring so as always....... Time to put on your thinking hats and let's get to it: 🤫😀👇 You get 6 different types of thinking hats applied in business, this role playing mode was created by a genius mind Edward Do Bono back in 1986,  However this is a great tool to psychologically understand people's ways of thinking, the mindset morals values and beliefs they hold and basically what they are all about, see the thing is people reveal to you who they are, you just gotta become aware of the signs and only then can you learn to live in peace with people who annoy or bring you to agitation,,,, Time to unlock to free thinking: Accepting the different thinking hats blocks disagreements that happen when people with different thinking styles discuss same issues, approaching the conversation from this particular point of view helps people move outside their usual thinking styles and helps one get a broader understanding of the situati...

Dear Readers  The time has come for ladies to become aware of what playtime distractions are really doing to you, as always let's get to it: Playtime distractions for the ladies, social media, make up and exercise tutorials, fashion, men and more men, friends, gossiping, time wasting and pointless talks, chasing money and followers, behaving in a goon manner (we will go more in depth on gooning in a later post) fighting and competing with one another being jealous , feeling depressed or unworthy, as you can see the list can carry on for days.....but you get my point! These playtime distractions is killing every part of you that wants to flourish. Time to put on your thinking hats 👒 👌 😉 😌 🤔  When us ladies are on social media we can feel so lost and depressed, we lose our identity and question who we are or we end up not feeling good enough. Here is where you are going wrong with your playtime distractions: You are feeding your focus with content and info that serves other...

How to conquer negative thoughts in your mind..... knowledge is power so here is my understanding of conquering negative thoughts  The time has come to put on your thinking hats and think a little deeper than usual.....so let's get to it...... Negative thoughts don't just manifest by itself,,,it is created, and what is the source of this creation, 🤔 you will not believe..... Most of your Negative thoughts is coming from the outside world, your interactions with people, the experiences you've been through and also what you think about yourself as a whole,  Let's go deeper: You will not feel shitty about yourself unless someone rejects you am I right? But when people love you then you can't help but think good things about yourself,  So here is the secret to conquering your negative thoughts: Start questioning those thoughts, challenge them in your mind, no you will not be crazy for that 😜 😉 trust me..... our brain has signals called neurotransmitters and everytime...

 Dear Readers We have come to the final part of Rule No 3 Crack the code to distractions, PLAYTIME DISTRACTIONS   I will cover the men in today's post  So as always let's get to it....... I picked this just for the men as I feel it resonates to guys the most, so there's your quote to get your thinking hats going deeper..... Let's move on.....playtime distractions for the men.....let's name them: Chick's,cars,motivational goals,bro codes,fashion,gyming and and..... So how does this come into ruining your life, I will tell you,  Your playtime distractions will fog your thinking and keep you asleep from what you truly want to achieve in your life..... Most of the complaints from men are about women cheating, befriending men, becoming shameless and disrespectful or being gold diggers, let me ask you why you complaining? Your secret distractions are the very same things you complain about..... Let's go deeper, you want nice cars, the vroo paas and and, you also w...